Divorce mediation

A divorce mediator helps you and your (former) partner reach practical agreements through open dialogue. The mediator facilitates structured conversations without taking sides, and provides clear information to help you both understand your options. This respectful process gives you the space to work things out together, rather than ending up in an adversarial legal battle.

During mediation, both partners have the chance to share their views, work through disagreements and explore creative solutions that reflect your unique situation. Because decisions are made together, the outcome often fits your needs better than what a court might decide. It also reduces the chance of future disputes.

Divorce mediation is not only more cooperative, but usually more cost-effective than going to court with two separate lawyers. That makes it a smart financial choice as well.

The mediation process involves a series of conversations in which both parties look for common ground. Once agreements are reached, the mediator records these in a divorce agreement. If there are children involved, a parenting plan is also drawn up.

These documents can cover many topics, such as:

• Division of shared property
• Financial settlements
• Pension arrangements
• Partner and child support
• Parenting responsibilities and schedules
• Ending a cohabitation agreement

Once the agreements have been finalised – and a parenting plan has been created if underage children are involved – one of our mediators prepares a joint divorce request. This is submitted to the court, asking the judge to approve the divorce and include the agreements in the official ruling.

If you are not married or in a registered partnership, there is no need for a court decision. In that case, the agreements made during mediation serve as legally binding contracts between the two parties.

Mediation is also a valuable option for unmarried partners who are separating. While no formal court procedure is required, important matters still need to be settled, such as the division of a shared home or financial agreements. Parents with joint custody are required to create a parenting plan. Mediation helps avoid long conflicts and supports a respectful, forward-looking separation without court involvement.

At TEN, our experienced mediators are here to support you. They are professional, neutral, respectful and genuinely involved. Whether you’re facing a legal divorce or the end of a shared life, our team is ready to help you move forward with confidence.

A respectful separation is possible. Contact one of our mediators to talk through your situation.